No more excuse,no more regret

Excuse

Starting from begining,first it must be clear that what is excuse?Often people don't know that they are making an excuse as they are not aware about the term even it is used many times in their day to day life,when their parents say don't make excuse,their teacher says don't make excuse or boss exclaims the same.Still its not clear exactly that what is excuse...Excuse is a way to escape from situation,it is totally or partially lie,its exactly not truth but presented as truth.

Check youself

So check yourself that if you are making an excuse for some thing.No one can tell this only and only you yourself can tell because it was presented by you.One most important thing that no need to explain it to others because in that situation again you are giving an excuse for your earlier excuse or excuses...so tell to yourself in your mind only.You may write it also in your diary as regret and promiss yourself that in future,not going to repeat it.In the begining it will surely be difficult to get rid of your habit..yes habit as what ever we do for more than twenty times it becomes our habit.Now calculate that since childhood or since last month how many excuses you have made..And now you know you are having a habit of making excuses.

If you want real SUCCESS then start this now.Yes now for the sake of your success get rid of this habit of making excuses...and I know if you start any thing the end will surely be there either positive or negative, because every thing which is having a starting point has an ending point also.You have to decide at the time of starting that what you want positive or negative??

Starting

It is more important than the end result.Decide today that do you want success, do you have any goal write it down on a paper cristal clear and strong.Now make one diary and start as your new life book ,write down your daily task or you may call it To do list for today..and the first one is- Not make any excuse...then rest four to five or ten but remember not more than ten because it will be a burden and at the end of the day may create a frustration.Now at the bed time check this diary again have you done every thing decided..specially the first one..I know you will find that you did not acomplish it as you have made many excuses again through out the day...but wait on the next page write down pointwise how many excuses you have made and promise to God and youself too that now you will not make any excuse and sleep with achievement feeling.Next day repeat the same procidure/work ,my dear friend you will find surely at night at your bed time when you are having your diary in your hand and making the list of excuses that less excuses you have made than the previous day .When you are not making excuse it means you are doing the work in positive way to your success and the day will come then you have not made a single excuse..you feel proud a feeling full achievement and happiness will be there.Congratulate to yourself and whenbyou will start doing this you will find that others are also praising you you are getting near to your goal it is just so near that you can grab it with one more extra effort.

Time

Now the time has come .You may enjoy your success as you are a successful person,you are leading to others on the way to success..people are behind you not you behind the people .Success is coming behind you it is following ,you are not running behind it.

No more regrets

Now tell me how are you feeling...?If any regret is there,any ifs are there-if I have done that then I may also be...as you have followed the right path ..If no excuse is there ,if you have excluded this useless and most harmful term EXCUSE from your day to day life....there is no more regret.

Thank you very much for reading and applying in life.

Aruna Johri